from dvd Lois and Clyde with Linda

1. Slow way down, LBI are thinkers
2. made you move
3. reward strategically
4. get away from grass--eat to make you mad
5. match the energy--bring E down til he gets interested in you
6. train yourself to manage your energy
7. no whacking--flick w/sense of humor
8. its a game
9. ask him to go slower than he wants
10. do opposite of what he expects